On 2/27/2019 at 4:03 PM, lezlers said:
I still think Ashley is confusing polygamy with polyamory.
I think Ashley loves the control of the situation for both Dimitri and the new prospect. She is only ok if she has final say on everything, not just how things play out but also everyone's reactions to it. She gets to tell Dimitri if, when and how he gets intimate with Vanessa, then she tells him how he's supposed to react to it"not too excited or anxious", etc. She did the same thing with Vanessa's love of red meat. She allowed that not only was eating the meat unacceptable but subtly shamed her for even liking it. Dimitri is so excited he found a woman who supposedly will allow him access to multiple women, he's willing for now to allow her to dictate every aspect of the process. I have always believed they are trying to start a new "tribal" trend and be the global consultants for how to make this work. All her baloney season one about African polygamy being their heritage. She's turning it around though from a patriarchal process to a matriarchal process. Traditional polygamy in most cultures gives the man full power in determining who is chosen and how he deals with each wife, despite protests by those involved who try to say the current wife/s have say so in this process, ultimately if the man isn't attracted or into the woman, it isn't happening just because a current sister wife wants her n the family. Ashley wants to control the choosing and how it plays out. The McGee wife is trying to do the same thing, although without the ulterior motive of Ashley. What both women don't acknowledge is that you are not going to control the man's sexual urges. Eventually, they are going to have sex when, how and why they want. That's why ultimately these relationships often fail unless the women are totally subservient to the men. Hence the process working in 3rd world countries where women have no say or power.
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